Sex With A Ghost!?
Wednesday March 26, 2008 8:15 AM
Some ghosts want to do more than say "boo!" — they want to cuddle up in bed for a little extra curricular activity. No body? No problem! You can't see them, but you can certainly feel them — and it's not your imagination. Yes, it sounds improbable, even impossible. But spectral sex has been documented for centuries.
Understandably, people are often reluctant to talk about such experiences. It's hard enough to admit seeing a ghost, let alone having an encounter with a randy one.
What happens in a sex-with-a-ghost encounter? Perhaps you stay in a haunted place, go to sleep, and then wake up with a jolt when an invisible weight comes down on the bed. You have a distinct impression that a person is there — someone you may or may not see. Perhaps you realize that the presence is a ghost.
From there, the situation can get a bit racy. Ghosts have been known to get under the covers and pursue snuggling, foreplay and complete sex. For the victim, sensations are quite physical. Most ghost sex assaults — at least those that are reported — are aimed at women sleeping alone. However, they can also occur when two people share a bed. One person usually sleeps through it while the other is assaulted.
Despite the send-them-to-my-room jokes, most people find such encounters unpleasant, and even struggle against them. Sometimes that will send the aggressive spirit off. Sometimes not. According to a minority of reports, some victims find the attacks pleasant, even welcome. "Spectrophilia" is a fetish in which a person even desires sexual contact with a ghost or spirit.
In 2004, model Anna Nicole Smith made headlines by stating she had had sex with a ghost that crawled up her leg. At first, she thought it was her boyfriend.
In earlier times, people were not surprised at sexy ghosts. The afterlife was viewed as a colorless and drab place. The dead, it was held, longed for the pleasures of the material world. If they had a chance to escape and indulge once again in sensuality, they would do so.
Today, one explanation put forward is that repressed sexual tension on the part of the living is projected outward into a ghostly experience. That's plausible, but it doesn't explain cases such as certain rooms in haunted places where ghostly sexual assaults are reported by a wide variety of guests.
Ghost sex can be similar to sexual assaults attributed to demonic entities, such as the incubus and succubus (made famous in the 1981 film The Entity), or to the molestations of the nightmare hag, also a nonhuman spirit. Victims feel they are engaging with an invisible human being.
Although ghost sex probably occurs more frequently than is reported, there seems to be no major cause for concern, should you find yourself in a haunted place. Most hauntings are imprints, fragmentary recordings of people and activities long gone.
[image courtesy of Adam Blai]











Comments (10)
I didn't want to put my name on this post for personal reasons. I want to say though that I am glad to read this article because now I know I am not crazy or had at the time suffered a hallucination! I used to live in a house with a lot of paranormal activity and one night I had gone to bed and was on the edge sleep I suddenly had the feeling of someone in bed with me I felt all the things you feel during a sexual encounter and at one point was even raised up with a lot of force. The encounter was neither pleasant or unpleasant to me and honestly, I didn't know what to think so I just didn't tell anyone and discounted it as my imagination because I didn't believe in that being able to happen until I read this article. I am glad to know I haven't lost mind.
Posted by nonameplz | March 31, 2008 9:52 AM
Posted on March 31, 2008 09:52
i'm female, early 20's
i have been having this happen for a few weeks now- and daily.
before the actual sexual acts started, for about two months, i'd be doing whatever, and whatever time of day and all of a sudden i'd feel the sensation of someone putting their hand down my underwear-
i decided a few weeks ago that i was going to enjoy it- because i have not gotten hurt from this being, i've come to trust it actually (don't know if i should but whatever)
last night was actually the most feeling i've gotten from this being so far,
i'll explain exactly what i feel because i'm anonymous its cool- i want someone to know
ok so most of this beings energy is directed at my clit/va jay jay... and i feel it the most when my legs are just straight down not spread out. last night i felt my legs go numb, then my arms, then i felt a weight come down on me, then the weight got off... it was the most pleasurable sexual experience i've ever had- even though i did not orgasm i was in ecstasy for a good 2-3 hours straight- and since i have been feeling this thing playing with me down there almost all day long- its really into it all of a sudden...
so, i feel flicking like a toung is licking my clit- this being is able to do this even though my legs are shut- i know for a fact it moves straight through physical matter...
i feel it right now and i'm sitting on a chair...
i also feel pressure go up into my vagina- not as 100% feeling like a dick but very sensual- what ever it does i think it hits my g-spot a lot, i am actually very frustrated though because i want to orgasm from it but i cant ... so far lol
i AM NOT LYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by anonymous | April 3, 2008 8:39 PM
Posted on April 3, 2008 20:39
srry but that comment posted on april 3 should be deleted or at least where she goes into detail because i am just freakin 13 and i felt very uncomfortable reading that. why would i want to actual read detail about her sexlife with a ghost. maybe if she just said yeah i had a sexual encounter with a ghost maybe that would be okay, but all that i mean come on. this is like a porno.
Posted by Anonymous | April 12, 2008 8:17 PM
Posted on April 12, 2008 20:17
To April 12, 2008: No one is forcing you to read what April 3, 2008 wrote. If you didn't want to read the X-rated details, you could have either close your browser or go to another site if it offends you.
Posted by HQ | April 22, 2008 10:43 PM
Posted on April 22, 2008 22:43
this has happened to me three times. a couple of months ago i felt someone kissing my cheek. i thought it was my dad cuz it was a heavy face like a man, but then i awoke to see no-one was there. i told my friend and he informed me about incubus, and an aboriginal spirit which is much the same. then at about midday today i feel asleep (which never happends to me). i was on my side when i felt something come on top of me. this made me wake up (sort of). i have felt him before, at first it was pleasurable, almost ecstatic. but then i felt as though being I was being harassed/raped, it felt like an unholy spirt, a male spirt. it was very strong and wouldnt let me move. i was trying so hard to scream because i could hear that my parents and mothers friend were in the other room. i was literaly mouthing the words but no sound would come out. i was so scared i began to pray to god for forgivness and help. i knew i couldnt sit up so i tryed to role off the bed but couldnt. i tryed to punch it but couldnt move my arms. not even an inch. i knew that it could have just been sleep paralysis, but i believed it to be something else. after that i thought i had awoken, gotten off my bed and walked to the hall, but three times i realised i was dreaming this. then i got up and walked over to my mirror because i could see a girl with black-reddish hair, and black eyes staring at me. she stood there still and looked evil. as i walked up to it i relised it was me. this scared me because i have blonde hair and blue eyes. i thought the spirit had corrupted me. after a few moments i realised my black hair was merely extensions and i took the wig piece off. i finally then woke up.
Posted by Anonymous | April 23, 2008 2:02 AM
Posted on April 23, 2008 02:02
To April 3-- I experience the same as you, we must have same ghost lover- I can't orgasm either, but I am in ecstasy for hours...
Posted by Giddy | May 14, 2008 3:41 PM
Posted on May 14, 2008 15:41
It was perhaps the most terrorific experience that I have had, it seems a little incredible and for some people it will be pure fantasy, but for me it was very real and so far I follow it practicing. Before beginning i want to describe myself, i am a latina woman, i was born in Mexico, I am 25 years old, I consider myself a woman open to the questions of sexuality, although I have had some real lovers and other cybernetic ones, anything you can compare with the kind of sex that I had further on with the visitors of the other world. I consider myself an attractive woman, I measure 1.60, I believe that I am very proportionate although I tough see myself a little fat, the men tell me that I have a very well rounded ass, that I am not fat but I would like to be but thin, I weigh 55 kilos, my bust is of cup b, and my ass it excites most of the men, I believe that it is my biggest visual attractiveness, whenever I put on jeans it gets the attention of guys. Three years ago i began to enter to the Internet in my work, I am a secretary and there I had my first experience of virtual sex that I love and so far I follow it practicing. I have had boyfriends and friends of those “with right” but I have not lasted a lot with them, I believe that I am something demanding in my relationships. Some months ago I had my first contact with beings of the “inframundo”. It happened that in a chat a friend that I won't say his name to maintain it in the anonimity, commented me about a movie "The Entity" that means in Spanish "El ente", this movie was about a woman that was raped by spirits, he gave me the address of a website where i could download it free, so I downloaded just for curiosity. I dont like the supernatural stuff and neither less the satanic thing although I don't go to mass i still believe that a God exists and i always had fear respect to the satanism. Then after a long wait to download the file I finally could see it, the movie was not new, it was as of the 80s, but the quality was well. That day i remember to have been alone seeing it because the friend with which I live in the department left, she will see a relative and I was alone seeing it. The whole movie described the history of a woman who was attacked sexually by an entity. When I finished watching the movie, although i realized that was pure fiction it horrified me enough and i thought what would happen if i where attacked by an entity of this kind. I keep this idea in the mind and i falled asleep. I usually sleep with nightwear but that day it was very hot inside my apartment and i was watching the movie wearing just a blouse and my thong. I don’t know how many hours passed then i was dreaming making love to someone, I don't remember well with the one who I was in the dream, it looked like a shade over my body and in the dream i was very excited to point of almost arriving to an orgasm. When I woke up i continued feeling very horny, i opened my eyes and the first thing that i saw were my legs opened up with the thong down to my ankles, my hands to the sides and my hips balancing from one side to another, my hip a little lifted of the bed, as if where pushing myself rising my body up with my checks. I felt fear because i could not scream although i wanted and i could not control the movements of my body, It was as if somebody was loading me, and that was not the worst thing, but rather i felt that somebody was penetrating me, something entered my vagina very quickly, every time feeling it more inside, i was upset, my breathing was quick, i was taken a bath of perspiration and i breathed opening my mouth, it felt my vaginal fluids as if i where very excited, i could hear the crack of that thing that was possessing me without my consent. Several minutes later i was still this way without knowing what to make, i thought that it was a dream but i could not wake up, it was as if i where sleeping but at the same time awake because i realized of everything and i felt as something entered in my body and it left. I could not see any being, it was like I where alone having sex with the invisible man, after some minutes of being this way, suddenly everything ended up. I felt as if this ent loosed me and bounce in the bed. I even continued without being able to move, my breathing was still shaken and it started to slow the rithm but, fair when I thought that everything had ended up i felt as if somebody pushed me to the center of the bed and abruptly my body gave half turn, being turned with my exposed naked bottom. This time i felt that my legs opened up slowly as if he they have own life, i could not see anyone, my head turned to a side and with my eyes trying to see, but I couldnt see anything, alone my legs went opening up more and more until I felt a pain, i could no longer open them more and that force continued pushing it, it maintained them in that position and later i felt as my buttocks they opened up abruptly and a force pushing something cold inside me, as if they squashed me to the bed, i felt something cold between my legs that it penetrated me, first slowly and later to a rhythm every time but quick, again i began to sweat, i opened the mouth to be able to breathe better, i could not make some other movement, useless was escape, i felt something of anger but it was disappearing and in its place was increasing my pleasure, i was excited, very slowly was increasing my pleasure, i was very hot and feeling a crazy desire for sex, very slowly it was going up my excitement, and after approximately one hour or more, i was not able to hold it more and explode in the most intense orgasm i ever had and released all energy in my body, it was as if in the moment of pleasure all had been prolonged, all my body trembled and my vagina contracted, i felt like i pressed that cold thing inside me, i lasted this way some minutes and later i felt like that thing left me abruptly as if it had come unfastened. Immediately i could move and speak again. I turn to see the clock and it was three thirty of the morning, that entire experience had lasted as three hours. My body was exhausted, as if i had exercised, I had hardly forces to get up, i went to the bathroom, my body even trembled, my sex burned as if i had something very big inside me, i felt sleepy and i got down on the bed again. Little by little the cold sensation inside my vagina disappeared. I thought that it had been a nightmare and i leaned back again, i put on my thong again, this time i put the nightwear and went to sleep. The following morning i told my friend the dream that i had and he told me that it has not been a dream that i had really sex with an entity. Then i told him that i could not believe him that it could not be certain. This was my first time and i felt so much curiosity for the topic that i began to investigate on the Internet then I was serious surprised discovering websites where people posted very similar experiences to mine where they said that they had been raped by spirits. I discovered a website where it was told how to have sex with this kind of beings. It said that they called themselves “incubos” and that they were masculine demons that violated the women at nights or they made them be sleepy humid. After reading this, i arrived without realizing to a web forum of satanism and it was there where I learned how to evoke these beings to give them pleasure in exchanges of favors. After this I have had other experiences that I will told them ahead.
Posted by claudia f. | May 17, 2008 12:50 AM
Posted on May 17, 2008 00:50
geezy pete you guys have gone bonkers
Posted by Anonymous | May 17, 2008 1:34 AM
Posted on May 17, 2008 01:34
Hello to all, my name i wont mention for personal reasons but i am age 20 and a male soldier in the army. When i was 19 years old and back in Texas i was seeing an older person (24)and one night we agreed to go to a local hotel room. When we reached the hotel room she gave me a necklace with a dragons head and rubies for eyes. After i had expressed wanting to engage in sexual acts with her (and did perform said acts) we turned out the lights. Instead of going to sleep, the room became extremely cold and where she was laying next to me was nothing but empty sheets. i know that for a fact that she didnt leave me or the room because i would have felt her move. when i glanced down (i was laying on the left side of the bed and she was on my right hand side) i saw a brown cloaked figure crawling up the bed from the edge. When i saw this thing i became scared (cussword) and froze in place. i closed my eyes and hoped that it was a bad dream but when i re-opened them the thing was still there just looking at me. A few seconds later it dissappered and my girlfriend was still missing also, in her place was a corpse like thing that i never saw its face but the head was straw like white hair and it had a single black streak in it. It said in a slow and deliberate speech that the necklace would not protect me from it because at this point i was clutching on to it for dear life. I was too scared to even think about moving or turning on lights to chase it away. It lowered its head toward my lower area (what my wife refers to as pedro) and started to perform oral sex on me. a few hours later (around 3am) the thing dissappeared and left a red welt on my side where it had placed its tongue and told me that until i released it from what i called it into being that i would have the mark. after it disappeared the room became sweltering hot and i found my girlfriend laying next to me shaking uncontrollably. i later went and saw a healer and he helped me get rid of the welt mark and everything. i hope and pray that i will never deal with this entity again but i need advice real bad as to how to prevent similar events happening again.
NOTE: The begginning of the event was roughly 1130pm in texas and ended around 3am the following morning. if you have advice and suggestions (either or) please contact me at cj_andersen2000@hotmail.com
please understand that iam also currently stationed in iraq until early 2009
Posted by anonymous | June 22, 2008 2:44 PM
Posted on June 22, 2008 14:44
I don't even know how I found this site. But it brought back memories of things that happened long ago that I have since forgotten about. There isn't just one incident that happened, more like several. And by me being younger when they occurred, I just dismissed them as being just, "really intensified wet dreams." Any guy knows what a wet dream feels like, but during THESE episodes, I would always feel like I was somewhat, but not all the way, awake. And as if something was orally stimulating, and caressing my body, but , visually, nothing was there. But I felt it, whatever it was. I mean, it felt great!!! And the orgasm was something that felt 10 times better than anything I've ever experienced with a living woman... I feel silly talking about this, but it happened to me!
Posted by anonymous | August 1, 2008 4:20 PM
Posted on August 1, 2008 16:20